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Why You Give In, Shout, or Convince — and What to Try Instead

May 05, 20251 min read


Why You Give In, Shout, or Convince — and What to Try Instead


In this gentle but deeply honest episode, Emma explores what really happens when you give in, try to convince, or want to walk away during your child’s big emotions — and why it’s not a failure of love or patience.

You’ll hear two stories of mums who reached their emotional limit in different ways — one through a physical overwhelm response, the other through quiet surrender at bedtime — and how both found their way back to connection, without shame.

This isn’t about pushing through. It’s about understanding your nervous system, reclaiming your presence, and learning how to step away without stepping out of relationship.

✨ You’ll Learn:

  • Why knowledge alone doesn’t help in overstimulating parenting moments

  • What it really means when you “give in”

  • How to set boundaries that honour both your needs and your child’s

  • One free resource to support you in the heat of the moment

👂 Listen now and let go of the pressure to get it all right.

🎁 Download the free guide mentioned in the episode:
👉 5 Tiny Shifts to Help Your Child Feel Safer

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Understanding people has always been a passion of mine, and becoming a parent made that understanding even more real. My counselling training helped me explore the emotional challenges of parenting — not perfectly, but with more presence, compassion, and clarity. Now I run a social enterprise supporting families through group work, counselling, and digital learning.

Emma Reed

Understanding people has always been a passion of mine, and becoming a parent made that understanding even more real. My counselling training helped me explore the emotional challenges of parenting — not perfectly, but with more presence, compassion, and clarity. Now I run a social enterprise supporting families through group work, counselling, and digital learning.

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